Everyone loves attention. We all want to be recognized for whoever we are or whatever we do and sometimes when we do not get that attention, we are not happy. Sometimes thee difference between a very confident person and a fidgety one is the amount of attention they have enjoyed in the past or have at present. Most times we tend to admire or envy people who receive more of this attention than us or who receive this attention in places that we have not. As a result sometimes we tend to imitate or try to copy some traits in the people we either admire or envy. This however is a personality killer.
Getting accepted by people around you is not necessarily about your finesse, how rich you are, how cruel or stern and so on, it is about how much you can believe in and stay true to your own personality. If you tell me something and you do not sound convincing or sure, I may be tempted to believe someone who does even though you may be right about what you are saying. Being assertive in your words, believing in your own styles and improving as much as you can in being yourself are one of the major keys to getting accepted and having the needed attention whenever you surface.
This does not mean that you should be rigid in your living or non-conformist in your way of life. You must know how to be diplomatic, dynamic and still stay true to yourself. Trying to be someone else will so not fit you that you will continually be frustrated at how hard you are trying and how little you are having successes. Of course you can learn from others but never copy them at the expense of who you are.
The only person that fits you is you. So, don't be me, don't be him, just be you. Be honest with yourself, if you have personality issues, clear it. But without that, never trade yourself for another person. The thing is that there is something that makes you yourself, there is a distinct peculiarity in you and how you do things that guarantees that you are a star.
Just Explore it!
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